If you are a caregiver for someone with memory loss or Alzheimer’s, you may want to pull out your hair with frustration. There is help available.
Jo Huey has spent her professional career as an advocate for people with Alzheimer’s and their caregivers. Jo Huey in her 2001 book “Ten Simple Solutions for Caregivers” provides a helpful communication tool of 10 things to keep in mind when caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia.
Jo is also the writer behind the blog http://alzheimersadvocate.com/history and the Alzheimer’s Caregiver Institute which aims to be a full training institute for anyone who comes into contact with a person with a disability as well as a retreat for caregivers to rest and learn together.
Caregiving is hard. When you find yourself on the “Never” side, switch to the right side of the list and life should improve.
Her 10 Absolutes are Never…
Never Argue——————————-Always Agree
Never Reason—————————–Always Divert
Never Lecture—————————–Always Assure
Never say “Remember”—————–Always Reminisce
Never Say “I told you so”—————Always Repeat
Never say “Can’t”————————-Always “Do What You Can”
Never Demand—————————-Always Suggest or Model
Never Condescend———————-Always Encourage
Never Force——————————-Always Reinforce
Never Take Over————————-Always Ask Permission and Invite Their Participation
Her website, Alzheimer’s Caregiver Institute, states that Jo is willing to assist anyone via email for free. Simply write your wish, as a care partner, something that could make life easier today for yourself and for the one for whom you provide care. Within 24 hours Jo will provide suggestions for making those wishes happen.
To those of you who are caregivers, Thank You. The statistics reflect that a caregiver spouse is more likely than not to predecease the one who is cared for. Reaching out for help can be a lifesaver for you as well as those you care for.
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